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with Rebecca Davison

Success, Ego and Humility.

August 3rd, 2017

I’m at a point now in my business where things are going pretty well. Some people may even call it successful. This is an interesting place to be. There are lots of learnings!

One of them has been – how do I replicate the success I’ve had previously? Back in March I launched a program called Money, Sex and Soul, which is for heart-based entrepreneurs to face their fears, shift their vibration and to take the rational action steps to move into pleasure and abundance doing work they love. I loved it. They got great results which was so inspiring! (You can see more by checking out my You Tube channel here)
I went to launch the program again just recently.

(Can you feel the big BUT coming?!)

I ran an event – just last night (!) and offered it to the folks there. BUT….I went home, completed buzzed and enthusiastic about the evening and then realised…I didn’t want to offer the program again.

WTF, right?

AND, I just emailed the folks there this morning to tell them I’m withdrawing the offer. Why? Purely because I don’t feel to do it. So this is a curious place to be!

Yes, an idea for a new program was birthed in its place – two in fact. But this was a great lesson for me in regards to what we feel we “have to” do to be successful.

My ego was like – “it worked last time, it will work again – do that!” My soul said – “actually, I want to do something else!”

I’ve been leaning into my definition of success is a lot recently. It’s not the money – that only satisfies the ego and momentarily at that. Success for me is a feeling of expansion and limitlessness, which is why I have often said if I stop enjoying what I am doing I would quite happily go and be a chicken farmer in Idaho.

YOU define what success is for you. Some people place so much emphasis on the numbers of people who follow them or how many people have signed up for their latest thing.

I define success by the love around me. The strength of my connections. Of knowing, deep down, that I am in service. That feels sooooo good and is where I want to live from.

I watched a fantastic video between Lewis Howes and Justin Baldoni last week. They talked about the dance between our ego and humility, how it’s important to dial our ego back and keep on going back to the place of the spirit. This is our nature; the dance of duality. For me that is always going to involve keeping my ego in check, taking the road less travelled and following my intuition.

At the end of the interview, Lewis asked Justin what his definition of greatness was. Justin replied in a word “Humility”. I couldn’t agree more. People who are great don’t need to tell others how great they are. They are too busy out there doing awesome things!

Do you know what success or greatness look like for you? I’m here for you to help you gain clarity so please feel free to schedule your free 30-minute session here.

Here’s to always following that still voice from within.

Love and blessings,
Rebecca
xx


Stressed? Read this.

July 18th, 2017

Are you stressed? If so…..

..the good news is it can be changed. The not so great news is that’s time for a massive reality check.

When I see clients who are really stressed usually these predominant energies come up:

They are not taking accountability for creating their reality and are still in the energy of blame.

They have given their power away to external sources – their partner, kids, boss, job, money.

On some level they feel heart broken or unsupported by God/The Universe

They have a distorted relationship with TIME.

Feeling stressed can be scary. It can feel like there is no way out, that it will never end and there can be uncertainty on how to move forward.

I have good news for you – it’s time for a breakthrough. It’s time to open up to some GOODNESS in your life. To a connection of feeling supported, loved, whole and fulfilled.

YOU are the only person who can create that through the choices you are making. Are you making inspired decisions to bring you great results?

Stop spinning your wheels, exhausting your energy and living in a quiet state of desperation – email me today to make your time so you can move forward with ease and grace. rebecca.davison@xtra.co.nz

Love Rebecca.
xxx


The Beauty of Hate.

March 8th, 2017
Hate is powerful.

 
It’s also pretty scary when it’s directed at you.

My sister hates me. I know this to be true as she told me the last time I saw her, which is a few years ago now. Yip, those words ” I hate you” came out of her mouth.

I think she has hated me since I was born. I ruined her life by turning up.

Here’s the most frightening thing. I think I have hated myself, too, for making her life so awful, just by being born.

Ridiculous, right? But when we are in a family relationship with someone we just want them to be happy. She was surprised to learn that I don’t hate her back. Fortunately for me I had meditated a few days before I met with her and received the insight I needed so when she told me she hated me, I simply said, “I know”.

Do I hate the cruelty of being disconnected from her? Yes. Do I hate this situation? Yes. Do I hate feeling powerless about it? Yes. Does it crush my spirit when I text or call her and she never, ever responds? Oh yes. Does it hurt like f*ck? Yes.

Keanu Reeves said grief changes shape but it never leaves.

The beauty of being in excruciatingly painful situations is that it drives you to go deep and to turn to something bigger than yourself. It has a beautiful purpose. To connect you to your Higher Self, to the Universe, to remind you where you came from.

Why does my sister hate me? So I can learn the gift of loving myself.

For that I am truly grateful. Both my siblings and the love of my life have done more to drive me towards my dreams than any other people on earth. For that I am truly grateful. They are also the relationships that have been the most painful for me. For that I am also truly grateful.

If you are in pain, conflict or stress in any of your relationships then I encourage you to look at it from the Divine Perspective. How is this situation actually to your benefit in the long run? How could this be perfectly orchestrated to bring you what you truly need? Most importantly, what decisions are you about the situation, or yourself?

Do I miss them all? With every beat of my heart. You have not truly loved until you can love the people who have hurt you the most.

Turn hate into gold by opening your heart to the pain and allowing love that you are to propel you into your dreams. If you have something or someone in your life that you hate do what it takes to let it go, not just for them but also for you.

Sending you love and blessings,
Rebecca
xx

p.s. This was tough to write but please know that I am not looking for validation or sympathy. I just know that I would have loved to have read something like this from someone, years ago.

p.s.s. If this hits a nerve for you, please let me know. I’m here for you. rebecca.davison@xtra.co.nz

Rebecca Davison is an Intuitive Coach and Conscious Thought Leader who is passionate about people activating their innate ability to experience abundance and joy through the development of their intuition. An international speaker, writer and mentor she empowers people to break loose from their own limitations to live the life deep down they know is possible, one filled with opportunities, fulfilment and pleasure. 


On becoming an AMAZING Lover!

October 26th, 2016

Are you a fair weather lover?

Do you love it when it’s good but you’re out of there when the clouds come in?

But how can you truly love someone if you can’t love their dark side, right?!

We have seen a back lash in the world of positive psychology of being happy and positive all the time. Finally, we are now seeing more integration of our light and dark which is a massive shift towards wholeness.

The beauty of being in relationship is that person teaches you about yourself – namely you embracing your own dark side so you can also embrace the dark side in others.

If you want to be an exceptional lover you feel.

Everything.

The joy, ecstasy and rapture but also the despair, disconnection and despondency. A true lover is not afraid to feel. They embrace it all and place a high value on their feelings. It is only when we displace our feelings that they become out of control, irrational and frightening to ourselves and others. This is about complete ownership of your experience.

What is sexier than the person who can be there for you when you are falling apart? Who can be still with you while you feel your pain, trusting in your experience and having faith that it will pass?

What does it take to be that person? Integration of your own light and dark.  Acceptance of what you feel, no matter what. No matter what society says is appropriate – i.e. men don’t cry and women don’t get angry, for example. No matter what your family says is the way you should behave, no matter what limitations you place on yourself.

Every feeling fully felt is bliss.

So if you want to be an amazing lover take the time to feel. Honor your emotions. We spend so much time rush, rush, rushing that we simply don’t give ourselves space. This is why people marvel when kids do so well meditating instead of doing detention – because it is creating a space for them to be!

Then of course we come to fear. A lot of people would rather die than feel their feelings. This is where we see self medication and addiction rear it’s ugly head. It’s simply a distraction to take you away from feelings you perceive to be uncomfortable.

This is what all healers do – they live in present moment.

If you are going back to the past to clear some old hurt, feeling or emotion that has been trapped in your psyche then it pays to do it with someone who can be in the present moment with you. With someone who has had the courage to do the work themselves, who has the empathy and understanding to hold your hand in the dark.

You only need to look at the areas of your life that you don’t feel are working or moving to know what needs to be addressed. Sometimes it’s hard to see because we are so ‘in’ our own lives. Often it’s not until we have broken free that we can see how much of a bind we were in. Your body is always telling you, showing you where things are not right so listen there first.

What happens when you are free and clear? You can manifest like magic. You become fearless, full of love and experience more ease and grace. You realize there is no limit to the depths of love – there is always MORE love to experience. This doesn’t mean that shitty things won’t happen anymore but your ability to cope with what shows up, expands monumentally. Instead of staying weeks or months in a funk you can shift out of it, often in minutes!  You experience more joy, more abundance. But all of it is in direct proportion to how deep you go on the dark side. The dark side is only the unknown, after all.

If you’re ready to go deep and to become a phenomenal lover then drop me a line so we can connect. The people I work with are leaders in their own life and the best lovers because they are open to feel. They take ownership of their feelings and choose to be unstoppable. That sounds pretty sexy to me!

Sending you love and light,
Rebecca
xxx

Next time I’ll write more on going deeper into pleasure as a lover, in all aspects of your life. It’s something I’m excited to share with you and it’s super juicy, so stay tuned! x